Hi Marcel,
1. I'm not sure how you're getting the Vimeo object to autoplay on iOS. We haven't been able to, and according to Vimeo's site, this shouldn't really be possible -
Troubleshooting: Autoplay restrictions – Vimeo Help Center
2. We're also not seeing the issue with having to click twice on a button that has a rollover event. On mobile, rollover often doesn't make sense, so we avoid those when we expect a mobile audience. When you tap on a button that has an onRollover event it should fire that as well as any onClick events that exist. I don't think there's an equivalent onRollout on mobile. Your setup / logic might be a little different. Can you send us your lesson via email? Or try to create a simple case to test on iOS (here's my test if you want to play with it -
https://lrs.smartbuilder.com/l/o8y9m9vjlwjp )
Let us know what you find!